Can you picture what it would be like if you were out with your family in a certain metropolitan area, being the consummate tourists that you are. You might be walking around with a camera, taking pictures, and eating a picnic lunch when a perfect stranger approaches your family and asks your husband if it would be ok if his friend takes a picture of him with your family?
Before you know it your husband may have agreed to this unusual and rather bizarre proposition and said stranger might be awkwardly inserting himself between yourself and your husband and smiling for the camera while his friend snaps away. And suddenly you and your children have been immortalized on the film (or memory card) of a complete stranger.
You might shake your head and feel a bit confused about just what has happened. You might wonder if you have been mistaken for a local (which is amusing as you clearly do not have the accent of the local people) and the stranger was simply a tourist who wanted a picture with a native of the area. Â Or you might wonder if you have just given some dude a picture that will end up in some creepy predator’s collage of pretty children. Â
Then you might wish you had been thinking quicker on your feet and said a polite “No thank you!” even though the guy looked normal and nice and was probably just an eager tourist, overcome with photo-snapping hysteria.
Not that it happened to me. But if it had, that’s what I’d be thinking.
October 6th, 2008 at 10:51 pm
Um, that’s just weird.
October 8th, 2008 at 12:58 pm
Hmm. Maybe he wanted to send his parents back home proof that he’d made friends in Boston. Maybe his new girlfriend wants proof that he likes kids. Maybe he’s told her that you are his sister, and they are his niece/nephew. Or maybe he’s a spy, and is using the photo with you guys as part of his cover, possibly putting you all in DANGER! So many possibilities…
October 10th, 2008 at 1:03 am
This happened to me quite a bit when I lived in Jasper. Chinese tourists (men) are obsessed with white, blonde women.
I don’t recall ever posing, or that they took photos with me, but if they took my photo (or video) while I was working behind the counter at the till, whatever.
Until one day my boss (who had worked there for a number of years so was used to this happening to her) said “Doesn’t it just creep you out to think these guys are watching these movies of us late at night at home?” Yes!